The Art of Setting Boundaries

It’s tempting to say “yes” to every opportunity that comes your way—after all, every gig seems like a step forward in your career, or another chance for fun. But here’s the hard truth: taking on too much can backfire, both professionally and personally.

In my experience, dancers who overcommit can end up in situations where they either have to flake out or underdeliver, leaving behind frustrated choreographers, directors, or collaborators. That kind of reputation can ruin future opportunities faster than you think.

Before you commit to a project, take a step back and ask yourself:

• Do I truly have the time in my schedule to give this my best effort?
• Do I have the skills or stamina to meet the expectations of this role?
• Will this opportunity align with my long-term goals as a dancer
• Am I truly willing to show up for this opportunity?

Setting boundaries isn’t about saying no to everything—it’s about being intentional with your yes. 

Learning to set boundaries will allow you to show up fully prepared, professional, and committed with consideration and respect for the rest of the production team

Don’t be the dancer who agrees to everything and ends up quitting halfway through. Be the dancer who knows their limits, sets boundaries, and builds a reliable, professional reputation you can be proud of.